I’m certainly not immune judging things by their skin. I’ve met many people that I thought were one way from first impressions and discovered I was completely wrong. Whether it’s the way they dress, how they speak, their face, their gender, their race – there are a lot of outer features we use as guides to make an initial judgement.
Hey There Judgey Judgerson
It’s also a fact of psychology that we are judgement machines. It is a built in defense mechanism. We actually NEED to judge in order to survive. We need to judge the temperature so we know whether to put on more clothes or get in the shade so we keep our body temperature at a healthy level. We need to judge whether or not we need nutrition so we know when to eat. We need to judge whether or not we are in danger so we know whether to flee or fight.
Gold-diggers, Cougars and MILFs – Oh My!
I could be considered by many to be a Cougar. I am dating a man 15 years younger than me. Technically I’m not a Cougar as I didn’t seek him out or seduce him. We met, we connected on several levels. We got to know each other and we are very fond of each other as we are without regards to age. He’s more mature, accomplished and clear than most 40 year olds I’ve met.